Saturday, November 12, 2005

hm, just a quiet outburst

lets just say there is a CERTAIN SOMEONE in class who TRIES to get-wit-it with just about literally everybody.
now before i hurt anyone's feelings, let me elaborate further..
its okay if what you do is reciprocated...i mean, don't be nice to a person JUST BECAUSE you WANT something from them...come on, you and i know its not right and its totally unethical to do so..

i know of people who are friends with just about EVERYBODY because they WANT to, and not because they NEED to..and you can feel that they are really very nice, because they have a genuine affection for you.
and that is something that cannot be said about this CERTAIN SOMEONE i know.

i don't usually diss people in my blogs, but this is something i have to do.

imagine having such a positive impression of someone and it turns out that impression was nothing more than just a wrong presumption.such genuine gestures that stem from a phony heart is something that i do not admire, especially after this CERTAIN SOMEONE tried to use our so-called friendship to his advantage.

come on.
do friends do that to one another?

i know that friends are supposed to have a positive impact on one another,and not use the other in a somewhat parasitic fashion.
i don't wonder why this person is often seen walking and sitting alone..perhaps i am not the only one who thinks this way, i know i am not the only one :)
sometimes i see this person trying to mix around with other people, you know, the ones who do not know the substance of this person's character..
don't get me wrong, perhaps this person is really nice deep,deep down, actually i know it is..but somehow the negative attributes repel me more the way citronella repels mosquitoes..

this is the very same person who calls you up out of the blue begging for favours when there wasn't even a tiniest hint of communication in class...i would've think this person is trying to ensure contacts made are stored for further use...a word of advice? don't do it, you'll come off looking so mean and cheap..

at the end of the day, no matter how big a person's dreams are, remember, don't crush the little people along the way because you will never know what might happen next, right?

and most importantly, when a person says no, they MEAN it.
don't you ever tell someone else that they have no time for money, after all...your goals in life is not the same as mine..i weigh my wealth on the scale of friendship with my friends,i consider myself lucky to have what i have and to make the best of what i got, unlike you, you weigh your wealth merely on the scale of mass printed dirty paper, and the amount of contacts you've got stored in your phonebook.

who has time for money when their lives are enriched with so many other things?

1 comment:

Ashley Jo said...

wehehee... so true n correct... :)
so agree n agree..... wonder "??" read o not.. :)