GIVE TRANSSEXUALS A BREAK

give transsexuals a break.
give them the respect they deserve, because they are humans just like you and i. since when do we, the apparent "superior" species judge each other solely on the basis of what our genital organs are?isn't that what the animal kingdom does? i mean, that is the one thing that the doctors and nurses looks at when they fill out the birthcerts for every single newborn baby isn't it? a baby with a penis is a male and a baby without one is female.

so since when do we start to discriminate against those who are the exact opposite? a baby with a penis may or may not grow up to have certain womanly attributes, and so is the same for the other sex. so i am asking this again since when do we bloody discriminate?

it just pisses me off when i see slovenly assholes jeering at these very same human being just because they are different. once again, why are they perceived as different? is it because their sexual organs and their sexual attributes don't coincide in perfect harmony?

what is it then?
is it because its WRONG?
that certainly seems to be the case, as you see in the newspapers lately, many religious heads are saying that "it is going against the will of GOD". erm...excuse me, but since when did GOD personally handed you a memo stating that?

take for instance the wedding between jessie and joshua. i for one, don't see any issue with them getting married. if jessie (who was previously jeffrey) decided that she is no longer going to live life this way, denying her sexuality, then it is HER OWN RIGHT TO DO SO.
they are willing to risk it all, publicly allowing their wedding and their condition to be broadcasting to the whole country. i don't see any issue of her becoming a woman. i dont.
what i saw was love between the two.
and who the hell are the other people to come and condemn the happy couple?
what made the rest of the country so damn pious all of a sudden?

what really got me angry was when one religious head said that it was "rubbish...there is no half and half"
bullshit , pure utter piece of bullshit.
if there really wasn't such a thing as HALF and HALF why do you see so many cases like this?
i don't think that person or anyone else for that matter actually sat down to think about how hurt the transsexuals must feel.but i know they are stronger than most of use because they have endured so much hurt and humiliation, unlike us, the so called "NORMAL" ones who flinch at the mere thought of something or somebody being so different.

and for heavens sake (pardon the pun) dont use religion as an excuse.
i know that love is the main thing that is thought in every religion.
love thy neighbour.
dont discriminate just because you think the whole idea of being half and half is "gross"
sure, it is different, but sometimes, its our differences that make us who we are.

i really respect countries which are on the way to help make life easier for these people. it is after all, their right as to how they want to be known as, and as to how their life should be.

it is not merely a whim or a fancy when a person decides to change their gender orientation.
it takes a lot of deliberation, self-doubt even anger sometimes.
so please, before you jeer at a transsexual, take a moment to think, what if you were in that situation?


what would you do?

how would you feel?

but i think the most important question will be



would you like to be treated as how they are being treated now?

hm, just a quiet outburst

lets just say there is a CERTAIN SOMEONE in class who TRIES to get-wit-it with just about literally everybody.
now before i hurt anyone's feelings, let me elaborate further..
its okay if what you do is reciprocated...i mean, don't be nice to a person JUST BECAUSE you WANT something from them...come on, you and i know its not right and its totally unethical to do so..

i know of people who are friends with just about EVERYBODY because they WANT to, and not because they NEED to..and you can feel that they are really very nice, because they have a genuine affection for you.
and that is something that cannot be said about this CERTAIN SOMEONE i know.

i don't usually diss people in my blogs, but this is something i have to do.

imagine having such a positive impression of someone and it turns out that impression was nothing more than just a wrong presumption.such genuine gestures that stem from a phony heart is something that i do not admire, especially after this CERTAIN SOMEONE tried to use our so-called friendship to his advantage.

come on.
do friends do that to one another?

i know that friends are supposed to have a positive impact on one another,and not use the other in a somewhat parasitic fashion.
i don't wonder why this person is often seen walking and sitting alone..perhaps i am not the only one who thinks this way, i know i am not the only one :)
sometimes i see this person trying to mix around with other people, you know, the ones who do not know the substance of this person's character..
don't get me wrong, perhaps this person is really nice deep,deep down, actually i know it is..but somehow the negative attributes repel me more the way citronella repels mosquitoes..

this is the very same person who calls you up out of the blue begging for favours when there wasn't even a tiniest hint of communication in class...i would've think this person is trying to ensure contacts made are stored for further use...a word of advice? don't do it, you'll come off looking so mean and cheap..

at the end of the day, no matter how big a person's dreams are, remember, don't crush the little people along the way because you will never know what might happen next, right?

and most importantly, when a person says no, they MEAN it.
don't you ever tell someone else that they have no time for money, after all...your goals in life is not the same as mine..i weigh my wealth on the scale of friendship with my friends,i consider myself lucky to have what i have and to make the best of what i got, unlike you, you weigh your wealth merely on the scale of mass printed dirty paper, and the amount of contacts you've got stored in your phonebook.

who has time for money when their lives are enriched with so many other things?